Welcome to I Tried It Month, where we’ll be publishing a new fashion, beauty, or wellness article every day in January that features a first-person account of shaking up an old habit, pushing beyond a comfort zone, or simply trying something new. Follow along for 31 days of storytelling, including everything from going without a cellphone for 40 days to trying the polarizing low-rise pants trend.
Doing my own hair has always been a challenge. Back in high school, I used to flat-iron it every day because I always believed straight hair was more beautiful. Unfortunately, that ended up causing irreversible heat damage and, ultimately, breakage. I started wearing weaves, and when that became too expensive, I decided to go natural.
These days, I'm pretty happy being nappy, and contrary to what might people think of me, I haven't put much effort into switching up my hairstyle over the last decade. I’ve worn a curly afro for years now, and I’ve grown to love it. But don’t get me wrong—my relationship with my 'do has involved a lot of trial and error. I’ve broken countless hair picks and tried every product and hair fad you can think of (and spent a fortune doing so, might I add).
But the truth is that I’ve always struggled with my hair because I tie so much of how my hair looks into my self-worth, which I’m sure a lot of Black girls can relate to. In other words, if my hair is looking busted, then I become super self-conscious. Not to be dramatic but it ruins my mood. When I heard we were doing another I Tried It Month here at Who What Wear, I figured now would be the best time to finally become fearless with my hair and try something new every day for 30 days. Since salons are currently closed, I took up an even bigger challenge by learning to do all these styles alone.
Keep scrolling to see all the different hairstyles I tried, and don't miss my favorite tips and products that kept me looking fly all month long.
Not knowing where to start, I went on YouTube to find this style. I separated my hair into six sections at the top, and from there, I tied each section with a colorful rubber band. Then, I twisted each section and pinned them all behind my ears.
I did another set of Bantu knots thinking I would resemble Tracee Ellis Ross in the end. That didn’t happen whatsoever, but the end result was these effortless curls. You would think I used a curling iron, but no—this is just the power of Bantu knots.
I added these butterfly clips from Amazon to my hair on washday, and I think it counts as a fun style with minimal work. I was definitely unsure about this look until the girl working the drive-thru at The Habit complimented me. Wherever you are, thank you!
I’m extremely proud of myself for finally learning to cornrow my own hair. I’m privileged to have four sisters who can all braid, so I’ve never had to pay a professional to do it. However, when I have kids, I want to know how to braid, so I tried it. This was the result!
This '90s hair moment is dedicated to Tia Mowry and Nikki from Save the Last Dance. I always wanted to look like them when I was younger. I blame them for all of my dramatic antics growing up, but I thank them for inspiring this easy style. This is the closest I’ll get to being part of those iconic pop culture moments, but I’ll take it.