Meet Marley Parker, the DJ and Model With Inimitable Style

In the Instagram age, we can't help but wonder, is personal style dead? It’s remarkably easy to get caught in a closed digital loop where everyone we see through our feeds seems to be wearing the same few recognizable brands. But take one look at Marley Parker and you'll quickly understand why we believe personal style—truly unique personal style—is still out there and thriving. The 18-year-old is a born-and-raised New Yorker to whom the cliché term "young creative" greatly applies. She effortlessly balances a modeling career and DJ sets under the name DJ She Marley Marl.

Her style is as multifaceted as her interests, at one moment channeling a very 1970s disco-themed look (patent red halter jumpsuit, platform boots, large hoop earrings) and in another a bright windbreaker and dad sneakers that give off a sportier feel. She also has a knack for novel approaches to some of the biggest trends. Take her approach to jewelry: Have you ever seen anyone wear large hoop earrings like this? It's these aspects of her personal style that make every Instagram post a veritable thumb-stopper.

We caught up with Parker to talk about not just her unique approach to fashion but also what inspires her musically and her journey to self-love. The last of which she readily shares the advice we could all use: "Self-love takes time. Being young and truly loving yourself is harder because you're still understanding who you are." Ahead, read our Q&A with this Gen Z talent.

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(Image credit: Adrienne Raquel; STYLING: Nanushka jacket, Helmut Lang tank top, Denim x Alexander Wang jeans, Tibi shoes)

Which artists/musicians do you look up to?

My biggest musical inspirations right now are definitely LSDXOXO, Mike Q, Quay Dash, Sateen, Xhosa, Show Me the Body.

Do you gravitate toward one genre when you DJ or is every set different?

I love many genres and subcultures of music, but I've always had a crazy attraction to house music. 

Which track(s) do you play during a DJ set to up the energy and get people dancing?

"Music is the Answer" by Celeda or "Lame Niggaz" by Asian Doll. 

Describe your style in three words.

Bold, retro, extravagant!

It seems like you're good at switching up your style regularly. How do you approach getting dressed every day? Where do you look to for inspiration?

I'm always switching my style up. It's actually not something I think about too much. Every day I tend to wake up feeling different, whether I feel more masculine or feminine, goth or hip-hop. So I'll represent myself accordingly. I'm inspired by the majority of my friends, really anyone who fights gender and beauty normalities through their looks. 

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(Image credit: Adrienne Raquel; STYLING: Marques'Almeida top, Isabel Marant pants, Hannah Jewett earrings (left ear), and Christofle earrings (right ear))

How do you think music has influenced your style?

Music is connected to movement of cultures. I wouldn't have the same love for bright colors and holographic patterns if I didn't love acid rave culture. I wouldn't have an insane collection of vintage Fubu, Baby Phat, Tommy, Ecko, Rocawear, etc. if I didn't really understand hip-hop culture. 

Which brands do you think are "doing it right" right now?

Some brands that are inspiring me with their artistic designs and really doing it right are Kim Shui, Grissle Lopez, Yeha Leung, and Fecal Matter.

Your jewelry game is strong. Do you have any tips on layering necklaces or on pulling off bold chunky hoops? What do you usually wear them with?

Yes, I love layering jewelry! I make a lot of the things I wear. My biggest tip is to take risks; be creative and innovative. Chunky jewelry is a statement. I always layer, but I’ll coordinate by paying attention to the metal tones in my clothes (zippers, buttons, buckles).

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(Image credit: Adrienne Raquel; STYLING: Christofle earrings (right ear), Fendi hoodie, Drome trench coat, Brother Vellies shoes, and We Love Colors tights)

You worked with size-inclusive brand Universal Standard earlier this year. Have you always embraced your figure or did you ever struggle with body positivity?

Self-love takes time. Being young and truly loving yourself is harder because you're still understanding who you are. Accept that. Be ready to learn and make positive changes to be the person you know you can be. Self-love is somewhat a mindset of understanding that life is so much bigger than what people think about you, what you look like, etc. It’s easier to love yourself if you recognize this because then you'll release yourself from society and social and physical expectations. Fem-identifying people have so much pressure to be a sexual token or goddess for the male gaze. Skinny waist, big boobs and butt, skinny legs and arms, big lips, tiny nose, small hands, and feet… The list goes on. All these expectations stem from negative patriarchal constructs.

See Parker show off three bold beauty looks from her shoot for Byrdie.

Stylist: Christine Nicholson

Hairstylist: Jeanie Syfu

Makeup Artist: Alana Wright

Manicurist: Gracie J.

Editor

Anna is an editor on the fashion team at Who What Wear and has been at the company for over five years, having begun her career in the Los Angeles office before relocating to New York, where she's currently based. Having always been passionate about pursuing a career in fashion, she built up her experience interning at the likes of Michael Kors, A.L.C., and College Fashionista before joining the team as a post-graduate assistant editor. Anna has penned a number of interviews with Who What Wear's cover stars over the years, including A-listers Megan Fox, Issa Rae, and Emma Chamberlain. She's earned a reputation for scouting new and emerging brands from across the globe and championing them to our audience of millions. While fashion is her main wheelhouse, Anna led the launch of WWW Travels last year, a new lifestyle vertical that highlights all things travel through a fashion-person lens. She is passionate about shopping vintage, whether it be at a favorite local outpost or an on-the-road discovery, and has amassed a wardrobe full of unique finds. When she's not writing, you can find her shooting street imagery on her film camera, attempting to learn a fourth or fifth language, or planning her next trip across the globe.